Emotional cords form energetic links between you and other people. They allow two people to be in energetic contact with each other at all times.  Although some cords with children and spouses are appropriate, the majority of cords we have are unhealthy and create an unbalanced dependency, or codependency with other people.

Negative cords can form due to traumatic experiences, from a sense of betrayal, guilt, blame, anger, depression, or attachment of any kind. Furthermore, because of its intimacy and intensity, sexual interaction— even a deep kiss—results in being corded for seven years!

When a cord has formed between two people, energy flows between them, regardless of physical proximity, and even if they are no longer in each other’s lives. If negative emotional patterns are associated with that relationship, person, or experience, your energy and life force can become drained and depleted, keeping you stuck in patterns of the past.

Once your cords are cut through this process, you can reclaim your energy and are free to reconnect with those who are important to you! As a result, you can establish your current relationships on a healthy and balanced level, with new energy and a new focus.